Way back when....

When I think back to my 15th birthday, I can clearly remember my dad deciding that I needed to start learning how to drive. My dad had restored a '67 Volkswagen Bug since as early as I can remember. I remember being so embarrassed driving around with my dad in that car; however, at 15 I came to my senses. That car was awesome! The only thing that was not awesome about the bug was that it was a stick shift. I knew that it was going to be difficult for me to learn how to drive this car. I knew I was going to have to practice often.
My dad would pick me up from school a couple days a week and the lessons would proceed. I learned by receiving constant feedback from from my dad (in the form of yelling at me when I would do something wrong) and from the car itself. If I didn't shift it the right moment, the car would make a horrible grinding sound or would stall. Because my car was so old, it was very different to drive compared to other cars; therefore, my resources were limited in the sense that I couldn't practice with another car. It was frustrating for a couple months to feel like I was practicing all the time and not getting it. It was also challenging trying to remember the rules of the road and the rules to driving the car. It felt overwhelming. Then one day it clicked! I just got it! I was able to drive on the roads, the freeways, in traffic, busy parking lots, and (the most difficult) merging on to the freeway when the signal was on.
After about two years, little Bug stopped working as well and my dad decided to sell it. Even though I was sad to see it go, I was proud of myself for accomplishing a skill that was so difficult for me. Learning that skill was over 15 years ago, but I am still able to drive a manual car although I definitely prefer not to.
A little more recently...

I have learning how to cook in more healthy ways. I was a busy, single mom and cooking quick meals that I knew my son would eat (he's picky). One day, I just got disgusted by how my son and I were eating, so I networked by talking to friends and co-workers. I started by asking friends and co-workers that I knew cooked. I experimented with recipes that people shared with me- some worked, some didn't. And then I was introduced to Pinterest. Pinterest with a search feature where all I had to go was type in "Clean eating recipes" and was given endless possibilities.
The only that was challenging about cooking this way was the preparation that went into it. I learned how to plan ahead. On Sundays I would search for new recipes, make a shopping list, and then I'd head to Sprouts. When I got home, I'd prep whatever I could to make the cooking easier during the week. After awhile it became routine, and now my son and I are healthier.
Looking back these two learning experiences have similarities. Each were things that needed to happen. I needed to learn how to drive, and I needed to learn how to cook healthy meals for my family. These two learning experiences were self-motivated. I wanted to succeed. These two experiences were different because of the resources available. Now, with the use of digital tools, we have more resources to help us with learning new skills. When reflecting on both of these experiences, I'm able to see that learning new skills comes in many forms. It happens best when you are self-motivated and provided feedback of some kind. Learning is easier to do (in my opinion) when you have multiple resources available to you. These resources give you options, advice, and community.